6.16.2009

I Need and Overhaul From My Overload


A quick hello to all my blogging friends. I am here. I am alive. I am in one piece. I am however completely overloaded. Overhaul please!

Sweetpea is finished school and she and Bunny are loving summer life. Isn't the summer supposed to be carefree? Yes, I thought so too. But no. In addition to suddenly having the two of them attached to me at ALL times, I am in the midst of chairing a rather large fundraiser that is very close to sending me off the deep end. I should share that this event is not happening until November. Yikes. So much to do, so much to get ready. I have moments where I start to feel like I am in over my head. I totally neglected my kids ALL day yesterday while I made calls, wrote letters and begged for corporate sponsorships. How professional can one be while asking for the big bucks, when a certain Bunny is circling your legs and attaching pieces of wikki stix to your knees. Not pretty.

I also took on a new position in a volunteer organization as Communications Chair for the 09-10 year. So, now you know why I have not been twittering or blogging about my own life. It is because I have been twittering, blogging, website managing, press releasing, updating, Facebooking and training for this other group. Hmmm...

We did spend another weekend at the beach which was relaxing until I figured out how to status update from my iPod Touch. Now I'm really connected. I am not sure that is good. Please note my status was not updated. If it was it would have read- I'm off to the Nuthouse!

I really don't want this post to sound like a "woe is me", "do you want some cheese with that whine" post. I like what I do. I love volunteering. It makes me feel good and complete and happy. It is just that my overload is catching up with me and my dream of a lazy, hazy summer is turning, well...hazy.

Oh well, better luck next summer! ;) And with that, I am off to log out of this account and back in as another!


5.22.2009

Promises of Ice Cream




Bad blogger, bad! I feel like my life has been complete chaos recently. That is my excuse for my lack of blogging. And since we all live in our own form of chaos from time to time, I know it is a good excuse. In fact I am not entirely sure what business I have sitting in front of the computer right now, when I have a "to do list" as long as the line in front of Walmart on Black Friday.

But, I told myself I would get on here today, even if brief, to say hello to everyone and bid you a happy Memorial Day weekend. This is it for me, the weekend I live for. The glimpse of a splendid summer ahead after a long winter and spring. A summer stretched out with promises of ice cream, Ferris wheels rides, strolls on the beach, no schedule and late evenings drinking cold beer. I love it! We are heading to our Jersey shore home in a matter of hours, as we do each year on this weekend, to kick off the season. It is so close I can taste it!

BUT...

that takes me back to my list. The list that is growing and growing. My lovely summer fantasies are stuck blending with the loose ends of the school year and my regular life- end of year picnics, teacher gifts, packing, getting the girls' haircuts, etc. I will not bore you with the list but it is a nice one. Chock full of crap that I don't feel like doing; meetings and appointments, errands and pit stops. All I want to do is sit on the beach with my book and a drink. Ah soon enough...

And while this weekend will be a brief touch on my summer happiness, I will be back to my list on Wednesday. I think adding a pit stop to visit and post to my blog to my list is not a bad idea! I also think I will bookmark this post because as much as I love the summer and all its fun, Fall is my true love. But, I'll save that story for another time.

Before I go, I would like to thank Elizabeth at Type A Mommy for giving me the fabulous Lemonade Award!!! Wow! See what I miss when I'm in chaos?! So very honored, thank you Elizabeth. Elizabeth has a cool ass blog right HERE. Please visit her and say hi!

Here are the rules for the Lemonade Award


1.Put the logo on your blog or post (check)

2.
Nominate at least 10 blogs that show an attitude of gratitude (cannot wait to do this, but it is now on my list!! Ahhhhhh!!)

3.
Link to your nominees within your post (on my list)

4.
Comment on their blogs to let them know they've received this award (on my list)

5.
Share the love and link to this post and the person who nominated you for the award
(check!)

6.
Tell us how you've come to have an attitude of gratitude (sheesh, on my list and definitely my next post!) Stop back for my attitude of gratitude post. Because Lord knows, I'm super grateful!

Have a great weekend!

5.01.2009

Why Can't We Just Live THERE, Mommy?!

Kids really do say the funniest things and often the most accurate. Honestly. I was driving in the car with the girls and we were listening to the Barenaked Ladies, Snacktime album.


It really is one of my favorite kids' CDs. Not only are the songs awesome and keep Sweetpea and Bunny rockin' and smilin' in their carseats, but hearing those voices brings a smile to my face and elicits memories of my glory days of college. One of the best times of my life was at a BNL concert at the PNC Center in NJ. Now THAT was a good time. Good friends, good beer and BNL. Nothing was better... Ok, I'm in the car going to preschool, sorry. Anyway, we are listening to the CD...wait one more tangent, just the other day I learned that the front man for BNL, Steven Page parted ways with the band after twenty some years! NOOOOO!!! He was the "voice" of the BNL! Well, they say they parted ways but apparently, the guy is really a coke head and they kicked him out. NOOOOO!!! So unfortunate. Whatever, I'll still let Sweetpea and Bunny listen to them, coke head singing or not. Ok, I'm in the car going to preschool, sorry. Anyway, we are listening to the CD, Pollywog in a Bog to be exact and there is this cool steel drum part of the song.

Here is the video. I didn't even know there was a video. Cool huh?



My girls love those drums. See, they are my kids after all. Well, Sweetpea starts asking all sorts of questions about steel drums and the Caribbean. I LOVE the Caribbean, (I know, dumb, who doesn't) so I was more than willing to share tales of the gorgeous beaches, the awesome food, the constant sun, the fun in the water, flip flops everyday, the laid back atmosphere, etc. with the little ladies and they were all ears. Bunny was chiming in with her usual "Beach, beach, I go to the beaaaach with Papa!" routine. That kid loves the beach (I know, dumb, who doesn't) but I thought it was particularly adorable to hear during this car ride and during this particular conversation, rather than while I'm in the middle of a phone call with the eye Dr. or something. Sweetpea, got very quiet and I could tell her wheels were turning. Spinning in fact. After some time she smiled and narrowed her eyes.

SP: Mommy?

ME: Yup?

SP: If the Caribbean is so great...Why can't we just live THERE, Mommy?! Can I ask Daddy if we can live THERE!?

Ahhhh, they really do say the most accurate things sometimes don't they? I wish. But really, and I ask this seriously...Why can't we just live THERE? Wouldn't it be nice? Please? I'll be good.



4.30.2009

Do I have Swine Flu? Check here.


I could not resist the double post today. I am probably jinxing myself with all my Swine Fluiness and will promptly come down with a fever of 105 tonight. Oh well.

Go here to see if you have Swine Flu. Trust me. Oink, oink.

http://doihaveswineflu.org/


And if this is the first time visiting today, make sure you visit the next post down. The photo is in fact priceless.

Swine Flu Prevention

The CDC recommends that you don't do this:



Stay safe, healthy and Swine Flu free.
XO

4.23.2009

Another One Bites the Dust


Well, my darling Bunny has made a move to the big leagues- the toddler bed. Yup, another one bit the crib sleeping dust this week. Kind of sad, huh? I know, I did almost shed a tear as I disassembled that mother f***er of a crib for the 5th time. (We renovated a few years back and had to move the crib from room to room while work was going on. And OF COURSE the crib was .25 inches to wide to fit between the door. So, needless to say, I am a skilled crib put togetherer and take aparter.) I posted about Bunny's move on Facebook and my friends actually noted that "it must be time for another one" and "uh oh, better get moving on #3". What? THAT was not a prerequisite of the move to the bed. I mean, as noted here, we are considering a 3rd, but ummmm, not right now. Thanks.

Anyway, this whole thing came about rather quickly. You see, Bunny became an advanced, Olympic level gymnast almost overnight. While she did fall out twice earlier in her daredevil life, those falls did in fact scare her enough to not try again (at least for another few months). However, a few days ago after about 2 weeks of nightly gymnastics routines, visits to our room, Polly Pocket playdates at 3am in Sweetpea's room, getting up to help her, yelling for me at the gate I installed at her doorway, bad sleep for everyone and a final maneuver that resulted in a very close call with a foot stuck in the slat and an almost broken ankle, I had finally had enough and decided a bed was the only way to go.

Now Bunny really has been giving me a run for my money lately, so I was pretty much anticipating the worst once we made the big move. I had visions of whining and wailing in the wee hours for nights on end. Naps that would cease to exist. Havoc being wreaked in her bedroom. But, it had to be done, she was on the verge of a potential ER visit.

So, the next day I went online to see where I could get one of these bad boys.

I did find one I liked at BRU and also one at a local children's furniture store, but it was about $30 more than the BRU version. Of course my BRU did not have it in stock, so we were going to have to drive 40 minutes away to the next BRU that apparently had aplenty. Damn. My husband decided it was worth the $30 and off we went to get the local store. When I arrived they told me the one they had was new but not new in a box. In fact there was no box. Ok, whatever.

Me: Is it broken? Is it damaged? Does it have all the pieces I need to put it together?

Nice Lady in the store: Yup!

And bonus, they were giving it to me for $100! Yippy skippy! So, I loaded it into the back of my SUV and headed home with Bunny and Sweetpea to put it together. I would like to note it was deluging that day. We arrive home and I run the pieces into the house and out of the rain. The three of us truck upstairs to Bunny's room and I start assembling. Easy enough. But then, crap- no more of those round nut thingys that fit into the holes for the screws to go in tightly. WTF? AND, I noticed a large piece of the wood finish is missing. This was freakin' broken, damage AND missing parts. So, I get my mean Mommy voice on that phone pronto and tell that nice store lady this piece of junk is on the way back. Thanks for the discount but no thanks. I'll get a new one for $100, 40 minutes away.

I pack it up, then call my husband.

ME: Guess what Sweetheart! You are off to the 40 minutes away BRU.

He's thrilled. He finally arrives home with Bunny's new bed and I ship them all off to watch Max and Ruby. I needed my bed crafting privacy. When I summon them all back for photos and the big "first sleep", I am a nervous wreck. What will this kid do???

This is what I was imagining this:


or this:


But...


wait for it...


wait for it...


she went to sleep. Just laid down and went to sleep. Of course, I should have know Bunny would just love this bed concept. I should have had way more faith and the hutspah to make the leap to a bed sooner. Geeez. She looks like a precious little doll in her doll bed. She will rearrange her stuffed animals and maybe look at a book but basically she puts her head on her pillow and just goes to sleep... and praise the good Lord, I am still getting 2-3 hour naps from her too! I need those naps as much as my wine.







4.21.2009

Give Whatcha Get

Ooops! So I just realized I never passed on the gift I got! Last week, Beth over at Be Careful What You Wish For gave me this:

Awwwww!!! So nice! See I posted about it here. Anyway, I was so wrapped up in my own glory, I forgot to pass it on to someone else! Whoops. Yes, I am a teeny bit self absorbed. Sorry. I guess it is not as much of an Oops as this, thank God.



But, I am back to bestow two lucky hot blog Mamas with the the Kreativ Blogger Award. I cannot remember how many I was supposed to give out. I confuse easily. So, two it is.

Drum Roll....

*Shannon at Where Is My Freakin' Mind? - I love this girl. She is funny, smart, pregnant and uses bad language. Everything I love in life. I really do love being pregnant. Except for no cocktails, then my bad language escalates.

* Jenny Penny at Welcome to My Momplex - I literally laugh right at the computer screen and sometimes spit things out when I read her posts. Today she used her eyebrows to send a message to her daughter. Love it. She is also trying to sell her house if you need one. ;)

Thanks for making me laugh girls! Please enjoy your cyber award and display the award proudly because I am a Mom and I said so. Also, when you discuss your award you must share 7 facts about yourself. I shared 9 because I am a punk ass bitch sometimes. You can be one too and share more. Enjoy!!